Love, Protection, and Repentance:

Sep 17, 2026  •  Pastor Deon M. Hairston

What does it truly mean to love someone the way Scripture calls us to? Tonight's Bible study takes us into some of the most challenging and clarifying territory a believer can walk through. Drawing from passages in Ephesians, Colossians, First Peter, and the Psalms, we are confronted with a picture of love that is neither passive, permissive, nor silent in the face of harm. The scriptures paint a portrait of a husband who is to love his wife as Christ loved the church, who is to dwell with her with understanding and honor, and who is to refuse bitterness as a posture of the heart. When we hold that portrait up next to the reality of abuse, the contrast could not be more stark. Psalm 11:5 reminds us that God himself is not neutral on the matter of violence. He hates the soul that loves it. That is not a soft word, and we are not meant to soften it. As we engage with this content, we are invited to ask ourselves a harder question than just what is allowed. We are asked to ask what is right. That shift in framing is where real faith begins to do its work in us.